Romance Now
(Men)

Here are a few samples of some of the great ideas your wife will be getting.

It will take him a little while to get going on them, and at first he will feel a bit foolish doing them.  But if  you thank him sincerely and reward him with a hug or a kiss; if you tell him each time he follows one of these “tips” that he’s wonderful, a woman’s dream and give him other compliments; he’ll discover that being romantic is fun. 

3rd day

Sometime today, fix her a cup of tea (or other hot drink she likes).  Hand it to her with a cookie.  Smile shyly. “I thought you might like this,”  you say gently. 

What is accomplishes:  it makes her feel loved and cherished.

8th day

It’s a perfect day to call her and say, “Don’t plan on getting dinner tonight. I’m bringing it home. It won’t be as good as what you make, but it will give you a break.” (Or if it’s obvious that she’s already prepared dinner, tell her you’ll bring it home tomorrow night.)

Most restaurants have take-out (no fast food stuff, please).  Order her favorite food and pick it up after work.  When you get home, round up the kids to help you.  Set the table, light a candle and serve the food hot.  Everyone helps clean up afterward.

What it accomplishes:  Down inside, she’s pleased with the romance of it  (especially the candle) and delighted that she doesn’t have to prepare the food herself, and amazed that you were thinking of her.

32nd day

Somewhat as you did on the 9th Day, when you walk by the woman you married, touch her arm gently or brush her forehead with your lips.  Smile and, say, “You are so sweet.”  Keep walking.

What it accomplishes:  Her heart will go thump.

72nd day

Here’s another one that will test your maturity.  Sit in front of a fire together or in a softly lit room.  You say:  “Honey, when we make love...I’m not talking about doing it now...but when we do, I want to be a good lover.  Is there anything I do or don’t do that doesn’t please you?” Listen carefully, take what she says seriously and tell her you will change whatever is necessary to make it better and you would appreciate it if she would coach you a little at the time.

What it accomplishes:  It will encourage her to tell you, during lovemaking, what excites her and what doesn’t. After all, you can’t read her mind.  The more she enjoys herself, the more you will enjoy yourself.

106th day

You’re driving in the car.  Glance at your wife.  Then glance at her again. “You’re beautiful,” you say sincerely and with a bit of amazement in your voice.  “I mean it. You’re beautiful.” If you aren’t in the car, say it wherever you are. Even if she isn’t physically beautiful, there is something beautiful about every woman. You don’t have to get specific. “You’re beautiful,” is sufficient.

What it accomplishes:  She’ll start trying to look beautiful for you.

That’s right, these are easy to do – but powerfully effective.  Each day is carefully orchestrated to build on the previous day, using new ideas, creative techniques and relationship changing secrets to create a brand new marriage.