Romance Now
(Women)

Here are a few samples of some of the great ideas your husband will be getting.

It will take him a little while to get going on them, and at first he will feel a bit foolish doing them.  But if you thank him sincerely and reward him with a hug or a kiss; if you tell him each time he follows one of these “tips” that he’s wonderful, a woman’s dream and give him other compliments; he’ll discover that being romantic is fun. 

4th day

Make plans today to do this tomorrow morning: Get up earlier than usual and make a cup of coffee or tea to take to your husband before he gets out of bed (be sure he’s awake); or if he’s already up, hand it to him and say, “Good morning.  I wanted to send you off into your day with the knowledge that I love you.”

What it accomplishes:  Even if he’s too rushed to act as if he appreciates it, believe us, he won’t forget; and deep inside, he’ll feel a warm glow.

22nd day

Today is when you really commit yourself to this 180 day program.

1. Call a couple of your friends, preferably those you talk to about your marriage, and tell them that you are committing yourself to this 180 day program (describe it briefly). Ask them to hold you accountable by asking you each week how things are going.
2. Tell them that, as of right now, you will not call them to complain and moan about what’s bothering you about your husband. 
3. If you’ve never complained to anyone about your husband, then tell them that you are going to say a prayer of thanks for three things about your husband that is good.  Then tell them what the three things are.
   

What it accomplishes:  You’ll find more to appreciate about him.  Positive thinking helps the atmosphere, your relationship, your health; and your children will be happier.

89th day

Ask your love when he could go for a short walk with you after dinner.  If it’s a weekend, you can suggest a longer one if he doesn’t have a lot of things he wants to accomplish.  If he asks why you can say, “I just want to be with you.”  Or, “I’d like to hear about your day [or yesterday or something you know is of interest to him]. and I thought it would be fun to walk and talk.”

When you leave your front door, slip your hand in his – or tuck it into his arm. Here’s a secret.  When you hold hands, make sure yours is behind his. That makes him feel masculine.  When you take his arm, hold onto it as if you appreciate his strength and the security of his presence. Lean just a little bit into him as you walk, not so you feel heavy or pushy to him, but lightly.

What it accomplishes:  It will make him feel big, strong, and protective of you.

123rd day

Tell him three times today that you love him. Don’t do it all at once or say it like a robot
(I love you, I love you, I love you. There!) Rather, try this: Make pancakes for breakfast.  Cut them into pieces that say I Love You (they don’t have to be perfect), arrange them on his plate and before he grabs for the syrup because he’s in a hurry, tell him: “There’s a message on that plate for you.”

No matter what his response was earlier, later in the day say something like, “Have I told you today that I love you?” Put softness in your eyes, gentleness in your tone and sweetness on your face. 

Then, just before you fall asleep at night, whisper, “I love you.”

What it accomplishes:  He’ll fall asleep wondering and wake up wondering; but he’ll go out to accomplish with much more confidence. His woman loves him!

That’s right, these are easy to do – but powerfully effective.  Each day is carefully orchestrated to build on the last day, using new ideas, creative techniques and relationship changing secrets to create a brand new marriage.